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Friday, May 31, 2024

Crossing the Pond!


 

 DAY ONE!

Today is the day I've waited all my life for- I'm going to Scotland!! Accompanying me on this life-altering journey are my amazing husband, David (who looks sexy as hell in a kilt mind you!), my daughter Allie Rose (who was shocked that I wasn't going and made it possible for us to go), and my son Anthony and my daughter (in law) Jolene. I am bummed that my other 'son' Brett couldn't be with us, but we will plan something in the future that makes it possible for him to attend. We miss you already, Brett!

We fly into Edinburgh Saturday AM and we will hit the ground running. Lots to see and lots to do and experience and taste!

The two most important dates for me are Sunday, the 2nd of June, where I will be reciting poetry I wrote. The 4th of June is where they will announce a proclamation naming the 4th of June as a national day of recognition for the witches persecuted in the Middle Ages.

So everyone is here, I've got to run! (erm, I mean FLY!)
Stay Tuned!!

Monday, May 20, 2024

Morning Walks

































 

Preparing for My Scotland Adventure

 Hello, all!

In less than two weeks, I will be completing a journey of a lifetime. Accompanied by my hubs David and kiddos Allie Rose, Anthony and his super fantastic wife (who's also the kind of daughter-in-law mothers dream about) will be heading to JFK airport to fly across the pond (I've always wanted to say that!). We will be spending eight days in Scotland, mostly Edinburgh, with a day jaunt to the Highlands.

I will be recapping our journey here as opposed to my more public website, www.janinagrey.com so that my friends, loved ones, and followers can experience my journey with me.

Many thanks to Allie Rose for making this happen, to David for being a part of the dream, and to Anthony and Jolene who wouldn't miss this for the world. 

Ever since I was a little girl (a wee lass, I guess I should say),  as crazy as this sounds, I thought I'd lived another life. I missed my long dresses, used English spellings of many words, wrote my first hex (I didn't know better) when I was eight years old.

At four years old, I would have nightmares and wake up screaming for my Dad, "My village is burning!" The nightmares continued throughout my life, almost completely ceasing 20 years ago when I embraced the title I'd feared most my life: Witch.

Going to Scotland feels like I'm going home. My ancestral lineage on my mom's side traces back to the UK, Ireland, Norway, so it's not just a witchy thing, but it's in my blood.

This adventure began a few months ago, when my friend Mary invited me to join a Facebook page called The Creative Coven. I joined thinking it would give tips on running a coven. What I found out was that I was among some very talented artists who would submit drawings and sketches of self portraits or just of faces in general representing the 600 + witches who were listed as Unknown in the historical archives recording the Burning Times that began in the 1500s.

I wrote a poem for the Unknown Witch and posted it as a thank you for all the great work being shared.

The Administrator of the page, Rowan, contacted me and asked if she could recite the poem at the event they were planning for June. I said of course.

When I told Allie, she insisted we go. From there it branched out to David, Ant and Jo.

I am now going to be reciting that poem and another called A Cup of Ash, with two other very esteemed poets. It is an honor that has left me humbled and elated.

I will post the poems soon.

In the meantime, Woohoooooo! We're going to Scotland!!

Love,

Janine

Thursday, June 8, 2017

#NationalLovingDay



50th Anniversary of SC ruling in Loving v Virginia: Interracial Marriage is Legal.

Fifty years ago, on June 12, 1967, the Supreme Court ruled to strike down miscegenation laws prohibiting interracial marriage. This ruling meant it was now legal to marry interracially in all 50 of the United States. “There can be no doubt that restricting the freedom to marry solely because of racial classifications violates the central meaning of the equal protection clause (Equal Protection and Due Process Clauses of the Fourteenth Amendment. Pp. 4-1),” stated the Supreme Court in the Loving vs. Virginia ruling.

Prior to this ruling, 16 states still considered it a punishable offense to marry interracially. It is difficult to believe that just 50 years ago, in 16 different states, it was still illegal to marry the person you loved if their skin color and ethnicity was different than yours. In addition to Virginia (the state named in this monumental lawsuit), the remaining fifteen states included Alabama, Arkansas, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Kentucky, Louisiana, Mississippi, Missouri, North Carolina, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, and West Virginia.

All of this happened because a young couple who had been childhood friends, grew up in Virginia and fell in love. In 1958, Mildred and Richard traveled to Washington D.C. to marry, then returned home to Virginia, despite the state law that forbid this in their home state. Upon arriving back in Virginia, they were promptly arrested for their interracial marriage. To avoid jailtime, they agreed to leave Virginia, so they moved back to D.C. where they had wed, and immediately began working towards fighting miscegenation laws. Nine years after, in 1967, the Supreme Court ruled in their favor, overruling all state laws prohibiting interracial marriage throughout all fifty states.

Two years ago this month, a similar battle was won on a more contemporary controversy. On June 26, 2015, the Supreme Court again ruled in favor of love, by determining in the Obergefell v Hodges ruling that, "No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than they once were." This ruling by Justice Anthony Kennedy recognized on a national level the right to marry regardless of gender.  

Although the Supreme Court ruled that same sex marriages are legal, there are still states within the United States that do not recognize this ruling, and have state laws prohibiting same sex marriages. These states include: Arkansas, Georgia, Louisiana, Kentucky, Michigan, Missouri, Mississippi, Nebraska, North Dakota, Ohio, South Dakota, Tennessee, and Texas.

June 12 is National Loving Day, but we would do well to remember that every day should be a loving day. And, regardless of skin color, ethnicity, or gender, love knows no boundaries. As song writer Eden Ahbez wrote in the 1948 classic Nature Boy and David Bowie sang in the Disney movie Mulan, “The greatest thing you will ever learn is to love and be loved in return.”

#NationalLovingDay  #LoveWins

(written for YWCA MV)







Wednesday, May 31, 2017

early morning coffee



sleepless night.
a text in the early morn
what are you doing up? you ask
as night gives way to dawn.
Formica tabletop.
Steaming filled coffee cup.
Sugar packets piled.
We exchange tired words,
bright eyes,
a smile.
Early morning coffee
down at the corner store.
An unexpected visit,
but I couldn’t ask for more.
Looking in your eyes
all my days melt into one,
as I revel in the wonder
of my beloved son.

Janine Phillips
May 30, 2017

Crossing the Pond!

   DAY ONE! Today is the day I've waited all my life for- I'm going to Scotland!! Accompanying me on this life-altering journey are ...